THE PRACTICE OF GRATITUDE
Messenger of Allah (S.A.W) said:
“Strange
are the ways of a believer for there is good in every affair of his and this is
not the case with anyone else except in the case of a believer for if he has an
occasion to feel delight, he thanks (God), thus there is a good for him in it,
and if he gets into trouble and shows resignation (and endures it patiently),
there is a good for him in it.” [Sahih Muslim]
Shukr
is an Arabic term denoting thankfulness, gratitude or acknowledgment. Allah mentioned
gratitude alongside iman in Surah an-Nisa 4:147 “What can Allah gain by your punishment, if you are grateful and you believe?…”
This emphasizes the importance of
gratitude in the life of a Muslim.
HOW
TO ENSURE THE PRACTICE GRATITUDE AS MUSLIMS
1)
ACKNOWLEDGING OUR EMAAN (FAITH)
By
being grateful for being a Muslim and also being among the people of eeman. Allah
says in the Quran: “Exalt Allah for having
guided you and that you may be grateful.” [Qur’an Surah 2, Ayah 186]. We should
also be grateful that Allah has made us amongst the people that adhere to the
rulings of Islam and are obedient to Allah. Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger
of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “A time of patience will come to people in which adhering to one’s religion
is like grasping a hot coal.” [Sunan al-Tirmidhi, Grade: Sahih].
2)
MINDSET
To
ensure the practice of gratitude in our lives, we have to cultivate a gratitude
mindset. This means we should focus more on what Allah has done for us and less
on what we do not have yet/ things that are not working in our lives. This can
be practiced by recognising the "little things" in our lives like waking
up every day, being able to walk, talk, see, hear and so on and be grateful for
them. Allah says in Quran 28 verse 83; “The
ungrateful never prosper.”
3)
AVOID COMPARISONS
As
human beings, it is easier to compare our lives with others and then continue to
complain and grumble. However, complaining and comparing will not make us acknowledge
our blessings. The Messenger of Allah (S.A.W) said: “Look at those who are beneath you and do not look at those who are above
you, for it is more suitable that you should not consider as less the blessing of
Allah.” [Ibn Majah].
4)
BE GRATEFUL TO PEOPLE
The
Messenger of Allah (S.A.W) said: “Whoever is not grateful to the people, is not
grateful to Allah.” [Tirmidhi]. If our hearts can’t feel thankfulness towards
people, especially our parents, we can’t sincerely feel grateful to Allah.
Hence, simple acts of saying jazakallahu khayran, thank you should not be taken
for granted. Acknowledging the efforts of our parents and being genuinely
grateful to them should be a regular practice in our lives.
5)
GRATITUDE IN ISLAM IS NOT A “ONCE IN A BLUE MOON PRACTICE”
Gratitude
is not a once in a blue moon practice for a Muslim, it is a daily practice. As Muslims,
our entire day is filled with adhkaar and duas that begin with remembering Allah
(glory be to Him) and reciting the Dua for waking up. The effects of gratitude are
cumulative, when you practice being grateful for small things daily, the effects
of gratitude adds on. Your mindset slowly transforms until gratitude comes to you
in your sleep on autopilot.
CONCLUSION
Gratitude
is a mindset, an attitude, a choice of lifestyle we make every single day and it
is for the betterment of our souls. As Allah says in Quran 31 verse 12 “Be grateful to Allah for whosoever is grateful
is for the good of his own soul.”. We should also remember that Allah will
reward the grateful as he promised in Quran 3 verse 145 "…And whoever desires the reward of this world – We will give him thereof,
and whoever desires the reward of the Hereafter – We will give him thereof. And
We will reward the grateful.”
Maryam
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